Don’t be next: SIGNS he may go Ray Rice on YOU one day

 
 
With cuffing season in full effect it’s important that we CUFF with some sense.
Though being wifed up during this impending cold winter may seem ideal, we have seen in recent news that the “wifey title” can come with a side of abuse, be it physical, mental, emotional, sexual, verbal, etc. 
LET MUVA BE CLEAR. 
I’m not saying EVERY relationship is toxic, I am simply giving you a broader look at delving into a love affair with the first man that comes around because you don’t want to be UN-CUFFED during CUFFING SEASON. 
 
 
A recent article featured on madameniore.com gives us some helpful tips on what SIGNS of ABUSE to look for AS EARLY AS THE FIRST DATE. 
1.  HIS JOB INVOLVES VIOLENCE
Did you know that forty percent of police officer’s families experience domestic violence?
That’s four times the rate of the rest of the population. It’s not a reason to ask for the check, but you should keep an eye out for any warning signs.
2. HE SHARES “COLORFUL” STORIES ABOUT HIS EX
She was crazy, she drove him nuts and she made him put his hands on her. Chances are she was sitting in that same seat thinking that those things would never happen to her either.
But the chances are that a man who hit one woman will hit another and you could be the “crazy” one a few months down the line.
3. HE THINKS RAY RICE DESERVES A BREAK
Anyone who can “sort of understand” why Ray Rice punched his fiancee in the face is handing you a bright red flag. It’s time to ask for the check.
4. THERE WAS A MOMENT WHEN YOU WERE ACTUALLY AFRAID
Showing you his gun collection and pulling the trigger, asking you to pet his barking pit bull and driving so fast you have to ask him to stop are more than just first date horror stories.
Fear is a way that some abusers assert their dominance and abuse their partners. And if he does this on a first date, it’s only going to get worse from here.
5. HE HAS MAJOR ROAD RAGE
It’s only 10 miles between your house and the movie theater but he’s honked the horn six times, cut two people off and flipped one old lady the bird. If he has the same anger impulse control in other areas of his life, it could be directed at you one day.
6. HE’S DR. JECKYL AND M. HYDE
On the first date, he was Mr. Perfect. But on the next one he’s Mr. Stormy Weather. If his mood swings continue to be severe, it could be a sign that he suffers from a mood disorder that could turn on the abuse even when he doesn’t mean to.
7. HE ORDERS YOUR FOOD FOR YOU
…without asking. That kind of controlling behavior that early could be a bad sign that his domineering ways could get out of control.
for more tips visit madameniore.com
Think with your minds and not 100% with your “wanting to be cuffed” hearts.
listen to your MUVA. 
MUVA knows best. 

listen to your MUVA.
MUVA knows best.

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